Okay, here's the latest update:

Sunday I got dressed around 11am, and S and I went grocery shopping. I tried to call H before I left to ask about his plans for the day, but he didn't answer so I left. When I got back, he had called 4 times, and the phone was ringing as I unlocked the door.

He picked up food and came over, letting me know he was going to go back to work from 6-8 to catch some people who wanted piercings - he made about $250 in a couple hours - it makes up for the slow days. Then he came back and we went and I got an iced coffee, and he got food. We went back home and he played with our S until it was time for bed for him, then he played a new computer game he bought for me while I did laundry and cleaned our bedroom. Lots of sweet, lovey, flirtatious behavior all throughout. No when we went to bed, but some wonderful snuggling - he was sick, and that kind of kills his energy for that kind of recreation. He is getting the flu, so he is really achy.

We had a pretty smooth morning, even with S coming in around 8:30 and crawling all over the place. We dropped him off at daycare together and went to our MC appt at 11am - it was hard because the infidelity came up, and so we addressed that (NO FUN!) and I finally feel some closure. She said next week we start on the fun exercises - bonding kind of things.

I've talked to him once today to ask about a scheduling thing - my Mom is completely moved to her new place, and is having a turkey dinner for my brother before he goes off for his two weeks of (Army Reserves) training this Saturday. So that was fine with him, and he let me know he paid the trash bill today through September, so that is taken care of.

I still have quite a bit to do in the end-of-semester crunch for my two classes, so I will be busy tonight - Thursday will be like a celebration dinner, since I will be done! WOOHOO! Regular semester classes are much slower-paced, so they are easier. I am taking a Composition Course and possibly economics - not quite sure yet.

I will update later! This is a night without H, so it can be troublesome, but I thin kI'll get through it.
Hugs to all,
Myrrh


One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.