Had a bit of a tense phone call with H shortly before I left - it was fine up until he let me know that he thought one of the endings to the Butterfly Effect would upset me (there are alternate endings on the DVD). I got upset because I thought he was going to wait to watch it together....kind of a minor thing to be upset about, honestly. And he still wants to watch it with me!
I think I am going to bust out Bob Barker - the Kind of Act-as-if, and use him for the weekend. H does not respond well when my attitude becomes negative. Sooo - I am going to try and boost my positive energy as high as possible this weekend!
Okay - had to talk to a friend who totally disapproves of me trying to repair the relationship with my H, so I just kind of briefly glossed over it- told her he and I were polite to each other and getting along, and left it at that.
Sigh- Not a hugely lovely day. Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
