Nitaf- I can honestly say I didn't have the slightest clue what a healthy relationship looked like when I got married or even started dating my H! It's taken lots of time, counseling, reading, and observing here on the BB for me to get a realistic picture of what a good marriage can be, and also what a bad marriage looks like! Hugs, Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.