Nevanna - Oddly enough, H has mentioned this. He puts it as "you always take it so personally whenever I am grouchy or irritated, and it isn't always about you!" I know it comes from monitoring my abusive father's moods - for my dad, it was necessary to my physical safety and emotional well-being to anticipate and constantly watch his moods.
I don't need to do this with my H. I guess an appropriate response is to ask once "are you okay?" if I think something is wrong, or not to bring it up at all? What do you think? Should I just trust him to share his emotions when he needs to?
Thanks for the observation, Nevanna! Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
