I4R- THanks for the input! You are definitely right, in that the less I expect in the way of QT from my H, the more I get. I am just beginning to understand my H's LL's - acts of service and gifts, with lots of touch and a few WOA sprinkled in...QT is NOT his LL!
It seems like every time I let go of a need, H gets a little closer to meeting it. I am so happy to hear that the positive effects seem to be there for you as well! I wil keep you posted as to my efforts to put this need aside, and I will check in on you to see how you're doing as well! Thanks again, Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
