UD, by night known as "Bets"- That is an excellent idea, with one change - tonight is H's night to come over, so I could just tell him in person. That honestly didn't even occur to me.
"D, I am having a really hard time with our financial stress and the loss of the baby. I realize my temper and emotions have been kind of out-of-control since we found out, and I am sorry about that. I have trouble being sad. I am going to try and talk to you respectfully and kindly, and I appreciate how understanding you have been lately. I love you."
How is something along those lines? Hugs, Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
