Slowly- The funny thing about my sitch is, it is very cyclic. As my H has said, when things are good, he enjoys being married to me and wants to stay that way. When they are not good (for example: fighting), that's when the dammit we have to D talk comes out again. I don't think he has called the lawyer yet, and I don't know if or when he will.
If he files, he files. There is nothing I can do about that. But I do sometimes worry about it. On the positive side, he came over last night, watched Harry Potter w/me, and stayed the night so we could ride together to my first prenatal appointment today. So, I just don't know - it's up and down, always.
We shall see. Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
