Okay, lots if my BB friends are taking a very understandable hiatus from the board, but since my thread is (for the moment)quiet and inoffensive I am going to continue on with it.

H and I had our first counseling appt today. It was HARD. Very, very HARD. At some points, I wanted to get up and run out of the room. It was just an intake, so we don't have any answers, just an appointment. Basically the conclusions we came: we don't know if we want to be married anymore, we have very little hope for a reconciliation, but for some reason we may still not be divorced. And oh yeah, my husband may have a sexual dependency problem.

FUN, FUN!!! But he is the one who really wants this counseling, but I know also we need it. I just didn't realize how hard and agonizing it would be. It is easier to forget about the problems than to face them and deal with them.

No spotting today - maybe the baby is fine. Because it has stopped, my doctor wants me to go ahead and wait until the appt unless I develop other symptoms.
Hugs to all,
Myrrh

Last edited by Lyrael; 06/03/04 03:53 PM.
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.