Thanks to all for the replies. The title of this thread is meant to be ironic: No offense, but it is decidedly NOT great to be here!
I haven't put any pressure on her to read books. Actually I shouldn't have said SSM is "unread" because she did read some the first day I gave it to her. I think she read the first chapter. That night I told her I appreciated the effort and she said she'd keep reading. That was maybe six weeks ago. Since then I haven't mentioned it and she hasn't touched it. Oh, well. I think this is worse than not reading it at all, because the first chapter is pretty powerful. If it didn't make an impression.....
A couple of years ago I bought a different book, called "Hot Monogomy." Same thing happened. Guess I'm a slow learner! I think I'll pick up PM and keep it to myself.
It's interesting that nobody responded to my question about sex therapy. Surely some of you have tried it?
