My husband has been sleeping in the guest room for about 2 months now. Well, not every night...about 10 nights he has slept with me. He said he needed space and wasnt sure about us...well, we havent had a real R talk since then. I want to know how things are, and what he is feeling or what he needs, but am unsure if I should initiate anything right now or wait for him to? He's not the best communicator...before I got emails about how he was feeling. I just feel like I am in limbo...we have good days and bad days. But there is no intimacy or touching at all. Sometimes I just want to give him a big hug or just a kiss on the cheek. Sometimes when he looks down, I want to give him a big hug...but Im afraid. Things dont seem as bad as they did 2 months ago, but they still arent where I want them to be. Plus, I am so sad....I miss us and him. I kind of think sometimes he's depressed, but dont know what to do about it. I know money really stresses him out and he just got out of the hospital 3 weeks ago and we didnt have any insurance...and bills keep piling in. When we had the talk 2 months ago, he said that he wasnt happy, and then decided it was the marriage. But I just wonder if its just his life thats making him not happy. I mean we get along great, we have a good time together and he said it wasnt me. So how could it be the marriage? Sorry Im just rambling...I just have so much on my mind and it looks like this is the place to lay it all out...anyways, thanks for listening
