Christine, I just was asking where you were. I am so happy to see you back and hear that things are going well for you. Congratulations.
My H wants lasik, you will have to fill us in when you have time on the surgery and how you feel about it now.
In the meantime, I just want to say thank you, thank you, thank you for this quote...
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-Don't take ANYTHING personally. Check your pride at the door. The WAS will say things that are crazy, untrue and hurtful, but it's not about you...it's about them. They say ugly and hurtful things because they feel ugly and hurt. Christine
I am so hurting today and your post is so timely. You have saved me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
My H is such a caring, loving man and it's easy to forget the DB principles that got us as far as this. You are so correct, you can't take anything personally. I know this but it is so hard to remember when you are hurting.
I have been ready to call our D busted and instead, H reminded me that we are still in trouble. I was ready to throw in the towel until your post.
Instead, today I will go to lunch with him just as he asked. He said to me the other day that it is fun to come home to me when I am in a good mood (which is frequently) -and this is quite a turn around from him not wanting to even look at me.
You have saved me from a certain disaster.
Welcome back, and please keep us updated this time. We are all so happy for you!
