Hi everyone! I'm going to try to post more again. Yes, I'm still alive and my D is still busted (but I think my H is busted too ). I had Lasik back in April and my eyes are having a hard time adjusting. It is difficult to be on the computer. Then, at the end of April, my H got very sick with a (so far) unknown intestinal disorder. He is on medical leave so, between attending to him and keeping up with the house, work and bills, I haven't had much time.

I will post a recap later here on my new thread, but if I only have one thing to remind everyone of, it is this: On November 2 (funny how we remember those dates) my H said that it would take a miracle for him to change his mind. There was OW, H slept in the guest room and he was doing everything in his power to make me hate him and to engage me in a fight. With the help of my best "as if" attitude and my dear friends here on the MB, my D has been busted! Miracles do happen!!!

I still feel very insecure about the whole thing and the OW still calls him occasionally...so I'm not living happily ever after yet, but I've come a long way and I owe much of it to the help and support of my friends here.

I'll post more later and I'll try to catch up on some of my friend's threads.

Christine

I am the master of creating positive energy and love in my own environment. I am the source of love in my life. It starts with me! This energy radiates from me! It gives me strength, courage, wisdom and grace!