Spoke with H a few times this morning while I was at my post. I was relieved of my meeting and greeting for the afternoon. I'll be back there again tomorrow and Friday and Friday can't come soon enough. I'm sure by Friday my boss is going to be in one heck of a mood...trust me She's a perfectionist, micro-managing, scheming, out for herself, kind of boss. She can be very snappish when stressed, but this detachment things works on her, also. For as much as she has going for her, she's a very lonely woman. Career first at all costs. Oh well enough about her, she is very good to me--the majority of time.
H called me as I was leaving work and asked if I could pick up S which I was on the way to doing.
I asked H where he was as I could hear background noise, people talking on speakers, H said he was at a store. I said okay I'll pick S up and we both hung up. Didn't ask H if he would be home later and Guess What???, bingo...he's not home yet.
I'm keeping my eyes off of the circumstances, it's like Laurie said there is absolutely nothing I can do right now. H has a problem and it's up to him to decide when enough is enough. If I push him, make him feel bad about, it's not going to make him stop, it just won't work. I know from my own experience years ago that it's something to be done on your own, for yourself when enough is enough.
She's a perfectionist, micro-managing, scheming, out for herself, kind of boss. She can be very snappish when stressed, but this detachment things works on her, also. 
For as much as she has going for her, she's a very lonely woman. Career first at all costs. Oh well enough about her, she is very good to me--the majority of time. 
