Cathy, Do you have to go to all these events? Or are you planning on going so you can fill your time up? I'm not whacking you! Just asking if you have plans so that in the event H isn't around you will be busy?
I understand the "if you aren't ready now, we don't go". Have heard that before!!! I've often wondered if that attitude of his was so he wouldn't change his mind. I now think it's just a part of what he is feeling. Like go now before ow calls & I'm stuck.
I do know that in the past, I've made nice plans and H has not shown up. It's really hard to figure out! Hang in there.
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.
