Good morning my strong friend. I hope you have a better day today.
I don't have much to add to the wonderful words that Laurie posted to you. She is so right about:
Quote: He showed me that unconditional love doesn't have to do with what the other person is thinking of me or no thinking of me, but loving him in spite of it. I had to let go of the control that I was trying to hang onto. I hope that I'm explaining this properly. By letting go of the control, I mean letting go of what I think he should be doing, thinking or reacting to what I am doing, saying, etc.
This is (for me) incredibly hard. It's not so much that I expect H to act a certain way, it's that I'm sad that he doesn't and won't. BUT...Laurie's right. This is what we need to do.
Hang in there Cathy. Take care of yourself and the little guy. Be good to you.
