I don't think H can stop. He told me not to long ago that he just drinks for something to do and he can stop whenever he wants to. I think he's trying, but not able to do it on his own, OW doesn't care either I'm sure. I think she drinks, too.
Well then my H has been 16 all his life. What if he never changes? What if he never comes out of this?
Ohhh so many questions. I'm finding if I can just step away and be an observer and not get all caught up in his crapp I do much better.
