I like your new name - Utter! Because I am the queen of patience, I can bestow that your are "Cathy, the Duchess of Utter" from now on. That makes you royalty in the land of patience.
Regarding your H falling off the wagon, I like what Minnie said about the trigger concept. If you can identify the trigger and help avoid it in the future, he is less likely to do it again.
This is exactly what we teach in smoking cessation classes. And we go a step further in that we have people have at least 2 or 3 things they will do instead of smoke (or drink) should they encounter that trigger again. Because if you are caught off-guard, you are more likely to falter than if you have a plan.
I think that men have a cycle too - only instead of PMS we should call it - MMS for "male madness syndrome". It could be when they seemingly go mad, make us mad, are mad but don't say anything, etc, etc. Good idea? Sorry guys on here!
I hope that you are able to relieve a little tension by hitting a bucket of balls. I know that would help me once in a while, but they just closed the nearest driving range - another one bites the dust to development! Oh well, we have more golf course per capita than any other state I think.
Have a great day!
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
