Cathy,

Wow! That's all I can say. I second Ellie's post that you ARE amazing. This man is VERY lucky!!!

I'm glad you had such a great birthday.

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It’s H’s reactions to those feelings. That if he goes to OW’s those feelings will go away, yet I think H knows that he won’t be happy there or that it’s not the answer to his confusion, it’s just his REACTION to those feelings. I get it now.




OMG! You're right; it's as if ow is his drug of choice. He feels this, he does that, he doesn't feel those feelings anymore....a temporary fix.

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When he said those lines earlier in the evening, I did get the panic feeling, but was able to overcome them quickly because I knew he wasn’t moving out. I said “I’m sorry you don’t want to be here” and left it at that. Shortly after was when he started coming back around.




I love this! I'll try this as well. Thanks.

Hope the rest of your birhtday weekened is wonderful!

Minnie