Good Morning All,

It's Friday, it's sunny. I have the day off and it's my birthday! WooHoo!!

Yesterday was a great day. It finally feels like summer/spring around here. For the most part I have my flowers planted, just need to add some weed control and then viola!

We are not going up north. H has to work tomorrow I called H once yesterday and left a message on his cellphone. H didn't call me back and didn't come here right after work, tried calling him again and no answer. Called SS to see what he was up to and he said his dad had called him and said we were't going up north. H didn't call me and tell me that. Oh well.

When I got the mail yesterday, there was an envelope from OW, it just had H's name and address and no return address! Argghhh NOW she's mailing stuff to H,HERE which I think is awful nervy. I wanted to say something to H, had to bite my tongue.

S and I went over to my sister's for awhile and when we got into the car to come home I had two missed calls from my H so I figured he was home. When we got here I saw that the envelope was gone. I was outside at one point and saw it on the dash of his truck, didn't open the door or anything but saw that the envelope was open and it was a newspaper article of some kind was in it.

So now she's sending things here in the mail, I guess it shouldn't surprise me.

H wasn't in a very good mood last night, quiet, withdrawn he doesn't feel well, had a headache all day and he's been coughing like crazy. H went to bed early but couldn't fall asleep was still awake when I was came to bed.

S came into our room and asked H if he could take him to buy me a birthday card after work today...how sweeet. I think H said something to S on the phone yesterday morning, because after he got off the phone with H, son said he had a secret.

Hopefully today I can golf with my friend P. She is now coping with her own H's infidelity which she just found out about last Friday. They have been having problems for a LONG time and it all hit last week. The things that her H has been doing is not pretty. He's definitely in MLC. I don't know if my friend P will accept that or acknowledge it as a reason for his craziness. I did send her the db website. She responded saying she didn't realize there were other options, just thought D was the option.

Cathy