I'm practically in tears right now you JUST know when I need your words, or should I say the Lord JUST knows when I need you.
Thank you so much for pointing me to HB. Since I have a lot of her stuff printed out I did go back this morning and was looking for something, anything that would help me with this stage. I do remember reading about this on her thread, so will search until I find it.
Quote: So difficult to explain, but I know exactly what I'm trying to say. You are still holding onto the things that he did, but not as unforgiveness, but as fear
This is exactly what I feel..fear. I do have that book so will need to get it out and read it again.
Quote: Once you get your h to feel secure, then you will feel secure. Now get on it and stop beating yourself up and stop worrying about whether or not your h is going to stick around. The Lord has already told you he is. Now trust the Lord.
Laurie...ummmmm...I thought I felt a whack....
You're right this is a whole new ball game. Thank you for pointing me in the right direction...the Lord. I was struggling with it, wasn't sure how the Lord was going to get me back in the game.
Quote: Now you have to work on the areas that bring you back together, but keep you independent.
I cannot/willnot lose the independence. In my mind it's what started this whole mess to begin with, at least for me, I got too wrapped up in my H.