So we're at the dinner table tonight, H says he's going to start working ten hour days at work, starting tomorrow. I say are we still going up north? H says I never said I was going for sure. I said well didn't SS20 ask to take off work to go? H says yep, "so he'll get a day off from work won't he then? I said, I don't think S20 wants a day off, he took off to go up north. So then H asks me what we're going to do up at there? I said fish. H asked me what I was going to do? I didn't respond. Then H said how are we all going to go, I only have a three person truck. I said I know I thought of that. I said why don't you and sons go then? Or I can drive myself.
It doesn't matter to me if we go or not, it's that H is now acting like he never committed to going up, that he doesn't know if he's going up. Last night he sounded like he was going? I told my brother we were going up there, too.
This is actually normal behavior for my H and used to drive me batty in the past. Is it a control thing? I just don't get it some days.
I'd be perfectly fine hanging around here and am thinking after what H said tonight that I should go ahead and make my plans for the weekend. If H wants to go him and the boys can go, I don't need to go.
I said well didn't SS20 ask to take off work to go? H says yep, "so he'll get a day off from work won't he then? 
