Quote: H stayed in OUR bed all night! I told H that I missed him and that I was happy he was home. H said why didn't you call me then? I told him that just because I didn't call doesn't mean I didn't miss you. H didn't say anything.
When I read this I copied it and see that ellie and Cindy both saw it for what I did!
You H just told you something important; he wants you to show him you care by calling" OMG, I just had a light bulb moment! concerning my own sitch! Both Ellie and Cindy made some great points! I think you need to sit down and decide if that WOULD be a 180 to call him. Maybe his LL is "confirmation of words"
I also agree that your H does tell you when he is going to see OW. So I'd say he is showing you he is honest. I also think he could be trying to get a reaction out of you by telling you he is going to her. He diffently wants you to start telling and showing him you care! Think about this!
