Quote: Nothing feeds the insecure ego like a woman that can't live without him. Though you don't want to be clingy it's a fine line to build him but respect yourself. Finding that line may be the key to getting him to commit to them.
Hmmmm...I know this and have been thinking on it..it is a fine line. I'm not the needy, clingy type. I don't let myself be the needy, clingy type, to me that means losing myself to my H.
Since it's been pointed out here before by other dbers it is something I will be working/praying on.
I'm beginning to do some soul searching, going back to the beginning years of our R working forward. Funny from the very beginning H said he would NEVER GET MARRIED AGAIN, yet in my heart I knew he would. It took me getting pregnant for that to happen, so this is kind of a block. I don't know that H would have asked me to marry him if for not the situation we were in or if the R would have continued at all. That's how far I've gone back so far.
Hmmmm...any ideas, suggestions would be welcome. Maybe others out there are similar in that they are not the needy/clingy type and needed to change that part of themselves or should I say tweek.
