Cathy,

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Now I could be way off base and H COULD be fishing by himself and I'm wasting my time and energy focussing on H and OW.



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I agree with minnie!

Give your H the space he needs, maybe he needs time away from everyone to think! He diffently needs to be by himself! Sometimes a retreat is just what the doctor ordered.

I really won't put that much on the MLC stages. Don't get so confussed about them! These men can be in more than one stage at a time. I think your H is in more than one. It is not a law or rule. It is just a guide for you to better understand what your H is going through. As for time lines, we both know this is not written in stone; they go through the stages on their own time line. Take a deep breath and go with the flow.

Hugs
Deb


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D: 03/14/2006