Hi Cathy,

Sorry you got rained out yesterday and that's it's dreary today.

Today is warm, sunny, beautiful day and I'm in the office. I just left H and dd; we went out to breakfast. They have lots of stuff planned for today and I need to get work done. I'll probably be here for a few hours and head back home in time to have dinner with my little dd.

Anyway, I definitely think that your H should contribute to the household expenses since he's living there! As you know, I have a similiar sitch (H not living at home; not contributing to dd's exps) and it's a hard thing to do but I think you need to.

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Now I could be way off base and H COULD be fishing by himself and I'm wasting my time and energy focussing on H and OW.



Exactly! He's been surprising you lately; perhaps this this is a continuation of that; perhaps he needed the time to think and destress a bit. It's very stressful and tiring to be as confused as these guys are.

Please continue to detach and focus your thoughts AWAY from what OW and what H may be up to. I had this same challenge last night when H came by and told me he would only be around for a couple of hours because he needed to go watch the game (Lakers!). He said he was meeting so and so at a bar but my gut told me he was meeting OW. Whatever! I decided not to think about it. Dd and I had a nice dinner at home and then we gave each other pedicures!

Thinking of you today!
Minnie