The book is called Men in Midlife Crisis by Jim Conway. It is a very good book and one that really helped me out with figuring out what was happening to me because I thought I was loosing my mind.
I did not understand why I was feeling the things that I was feeling or behaving the way that I was behaving. It was not a normal way for me to be. I use to always be so sure about things and during that time I was sure about nothing.
When I read the book, and noticed that it had some chapters that were devoted to the woman, I went directly there and started reading. For the first time in a while I understood what was happening to me. I had something to work with and realized that it would pass if I would just wait.
That there wasn't anything wrong with me and that my feelings and my beliefs hadn't changed, but I was beginning to grow up as you might say. For the first time I understood and realized that all people go through this. Some worse then others, but it is a natural course of life and that if you will just go through it instead of fighting it, it will be alright.
I liked knowing that I would eventually be alright.