Howdy JJ,

Just got back from a wonderful vacation with my h at his mom's house! Was awesomely busy cause my h had us hopping taking us golfing, to the movies, to visit his dad (who came up from Florida just to see h), to visit his grandparents, to go sightseeing, etc. Hardly slept at all too !

We had 2 small bumps but were dealt with and over. Both were just minor misunderstandings between h and i which having been dealt with right away showed me that my h's jestings towards me are just that and no more! I read into his comments too much. Though I did specify that I would be more willing to laugh if he can not comment about my belly. (not as taunt as I would (but thankfully small ) like thus I'm sensitive). H said ok.

My h is busy doing the small things! Which I find so GREAT!!! He does:

hold my hand as we walk
hold my hand as we lie down to sleep
hug me as we walk
kiss me goodnight
hold the door open for me
TALK about anything!! BIG BIG
surprise me with little gifts
do chores without my bidding
makes chore schedules for the kids
takes the kids to do fun things that i DID NOT schedule

These are just a smidget of what h is up to lately! I remark to everyone that the situation NOW is like night to day to what I was doing this time last year.

I find myself remembering this time last year, marking the milestones in my head..parelleling what is happening right now. This time last year...h and I were headed to our first divorce court appearance, he was seeing ow, telling me it was over, but dating me occassionally, and sleeping with me all the time...one day he was nice the next he was a raving lunatic!

It's definitely DAY with all the lights on in my db'ing land!!!

Cindy