Thanks Wiley for your awesome advice. I have not said anything to h about the chaperone idea. He didn't mention it again either.
But I know it will be a matter of time since our kids love swimming and will want to go. I think I'll try to get one of our upstair's neighbors to take kids to the pool...beat h to the punch so to speak.
You are right, I need to be confident in what we are building now. These other diversions are just that...scenery on the way to the final destination. Nothing more, I can look at the scenery but don't need to get out of the M car!
I'm cool. Going out with gal pals tonight. Looking to have a good time!!! No pressure just having a good time with my friends and with h. H has plans to take us to see Tesla next week. Looking forward to THAT!
