My h doesn't know that I know about his involvement with his neighbor (ow). She left him a note which I found that said "hey let's get together for drinks so we can discuss our r. I'm newly divorced and am not interested in an r but wanted to find out how you felt. call me."
Well h called today and asked if we should call HER to have her take our kids to the pool. (kids need a chaperone 14 yrs or older to be at the pool)
Well what should I do? SHould I say I know about her? Ask how he handled the r discussion with her? Tell him I would prefer not to have to deal with her.
I don't feel comfortable asking her into our lives again. We moved way across the complex from her and I don't want her to come back around. She really doesn't like me, ignores me when I say hi, and only talks to h when I'm right there.
