Hoping,

Yes, I have a hard time sleeping with h there. I wake constantly as he rolls and moves around.

I came home yesterday to find that he had moved everything from where I had put it. That was a little unsettling but ok if that is how he wants it why fight about it.

In the course of the evening we both referred to things as 'my, mine' instead of 'ours, us' which I guess will come with time.

You are right it is difficult to get back into the everyday act of living with your spouse. But it is definitely better than without them!!!

Cindy

PS> In the course of unpacking the telephone I 'accidently' erased the ow's message! Oop, my bad . H saw I did it but didn't say anything. We cuddled on the couch to watch a movie instead.