I'm just having to clarify things for myself because sex isn't the only issue. I want more conversation and other sorts of personal interaction also.
I know I can't make my husband like me, but I can think about whether I really do make a pest of myself since that is what he seems to indicate. If I find that I believe that to be true, then maybe that is something I need to work on, in the same way I determined that my weight was something I wanted to work on for myself to some extent.
I need to start defining my goals for conversation and "date" type interactions as well as sex in my relationship. Maybe I'll even throw in a weekly minimum for cuddle time. That will be way harder for my H than the sex.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
