The old Love Languages. People tend to give love in the way they want to recieve love. I have figured out that my love language is physical touch. I do not have a second love language like some do. Unfortuantely, my wifes love language is NOT physical touch. For a ND wife, physical touch is easily the hardest love language to learn if it is not your primary language. Sure, she cooks dinner, does the laundry, etc.., but these are only appreciated by me, they are not LOVE to me. If she wants to express love to me in a meaningful way, it must come through physical touch, which could be affection or sex. Nothing else will make any deposits in the love tank. Now I too must figure out her love language so that I can make deposits in her love tank.
Quote: Is it possible that your LDW is afraid to be vulnerable to you?
Aren't all LD spouses this way? The literally don't want to want. What exactly are they afraid of, what is this vulnerablness?
