Cemar said:
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it really is quite simple, you just have to love sex and desire sex with your spouse. Unfortunately, almost half of all women are NOT really capable of being like this, and we are the unfortuante guys that married one of these women.
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ANNNK, I have to disagree here cemar.

A spouse does NOT have to love and desire sex in order for the relationship to work. Michele is very clear about that in her book, in fact, the "just do it" principal is derived from her experience with people that don't necessarily love or desire sex.

What a good sexual relationship does require is TWO people that want to have a good relationship.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.