Greeneyedlass said:
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But to get us to this point it took me facing my fears of conflict and telling my husband point blank that we had to do something because I would not live the rest of my life celibate
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"facing your fears of conflict" - that says it all.
Congratulations!

That is simply OUTSTANDING!

-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.