That's what got me started writing it down too - it was for me. Actually, it was just the opposite effect from the way I described the LD spouse. Their needs are being met, so they can't believe it's been that long; MY needs aren't being met, so it seems like a looooong time to me. I really started keeping a calendar just to verify to myself that I wasn't blowing things out of proportion. I was asking myself if it was REALLY a month since I even got a HJ or am I just feeling horny and it SEEMS like a month.
The only reason I hauled it out was that W wouldn't budge from her position that we had sex "a lot more often than that" when I told the C about our frequency. W insisted that her version was correct, but I KNEW mine was.
