I keep one only for my info. If the wife new, she probably would not be happy, to much pressure, then would start thinking in terms of scheduling sex. I don't want sex if it is only to meet a schedule, I only want it if she desires it, which of course is never. Then unfortunately I fall prey to my own desire and I tap her on the shoulder enough times until it happens, and then I dislike myself for having to initiate again.
