I often wonder if these calendars are a good thing or a bad thing. When things were good it was a way to remind me of how good it was . . . . now its just the opposite.
And I avoid at all cost actually quoting stats to my wife. It just seems to me that it would be viewed as a ploy to "prove them wrong" which would serve only to drive the wedge deeper and make them more resentful. Although I have on more than a few occasions contemplated pulling them out and firing away. Maybe that'll be part of my "180" . . . . keeping it to myself doesn't seem to be doing anything =)
