The frequency issue with LD people is truly baffling. I to have actually kept calanders on sex and affection. I will say this, the LD spouses are not even remotely close when they estimate frequency, and this obviously causes the problem. Why would they be sexual when they have the completely wrong perception of how often they do it. My question is, why do they not want to do it more, there is NOTHING better then sex, there is nothing that is even remotely close to sex, so why would one want to avoid the best thing in life?