As far as I know, H is only having an EA, though I have my doubts. SD for me is ALWAYS on H. I love my H and after nine years I still have him very attractive. For him though, he had a heart attack last Jan at the age of 31 which caused a horrible depression, no SD AT ALL for months and months. I EA came out of not being able to talk to ME not over not being able to have S with me. Now that his libio is coming around we have taken up S again and his SD is getting better but he is still having an EA.
