Quote: Anyway, I'm trying to assess if the infidelity in your sitch was preceded by any desire discrepancies between the 2 of you and, if so, why do you think there was a difference in desire?
My H started off with a EA before it led to a PA. I do belive that desire discrepancies help him cross over then line. When I started to feel like the freindship was getting more than friendship. I went into a little depression. I was motivated to work on R or keeping me going.
After time I belive he just let things happen and went with the flow. When I was feeling depressed about me I did not show an intrest in ML. I thought that I wasn't good engough (I need to lose wieght, or keep the house clean so I could relax)
Basicly, I let life get in the way of ML with my H. So H went form a EA to a PA. Or a least that is what ir seems like now.)
