Anyway, I'm trying to assess if the infidelity in your sitch was preceded by any desire discrepancies between the 2 of you and, if so, why do you think there was a difference in desire?
major difference in our desire..I was always hd and h either very very ld or rather as he likes to call it "a fluctuating libido" meaning there could be nothing from him at all (not even willingness to be oraly pleased) for months and then wham three or four nights in a row.
I don't know what led to h's affair..perhaps he simply enjoyed the cheering and admiration from a simple little ignorant woman with no boundaries. H claims that his 2+ year relationship that led to seperation and his wanting a d then ows wanting a d from her h to be with mine was soley and emotional relationship. Who the hell knows and at this point who the hell cares..I'm still not getting what I need.
I'm a little pissy today. hey maybe that's why he had his a..couldn't deal with the reality of a relationship so took on a part time one with someone who already had a man filling the rest of her needs?
