Debra, Do you think you could ever get your H to attend sex therapy? I might be way off here but it sounds like he has a hard time relating to you as both his wife and friend and life partner as well as a red hot lover. So he turns to these awful sounding women for sexual release.
You know, some men put their wives up on a pedestal to such an extent that they then feel they are degrading her by wanting sex from her. Could this be it?
My own H would rather clean the toilet with his tongue than attend therapy but he WILL read a book if I insist long and loud enough. Would this be an option for him? Maybe you could find something that speaks to his inability to relate to you as both a wife and lover..
