Hi Debra - I've been seeing your wise posts around, and thought I'd jump in here for a bit. A persistent tone through your posts has been the tiredness - could this be medical in addition to the emotional difficulties?
I'm also wondering if he feels utterly safe with you that all intimacy and care can be postponed till he is good and ready? Just wondering if a little bit of get-a-life with a good measure of mystery might jolt him out of this alien induced limbo? Slowly
