Besides, your H was trying to impress her. He was probably not thinking clearly. Maybe he wanted her approval and she was a whiny, clingy, insecure woman and needed him to make something up to make her feel better. So he told her that you didn't attract him.
I began dating my H shortly after his D to his first wife. He never loved her - really didn't, not DBing "ILYBNILWY" stuff. He knocked her up after dating her for a few weeks. Her second H told me the same thing happened to him, and he also wants out. This woman has five children with two Hs and both say they never loved her... she's very hard to get along with.
This is a horrible woman. Yet, despite her telling her children I "stole" their father (we did not have an affair, I was just his friend) and that I was a slut and having sex with him (these were 4 year old children, mind you-AND I was NOT having sex with him.) I have NEVER told her that he didn't love her, that he never wanted his children (whom he loves dearly now, BTW) or that he felt she "tricked" him into marrying her.
I know the truth. I know my H never loved her. That (at one time) he loved me dearly. That I have his love and she never did. I don't need to rub that in her face, I like to think I am better than that.
That's the type of woman our H's marry. Not that slut your H hooked up with for a little fun. She knows it. That's why she was trying to hurt you. Because she knows she wasn't good enough for him and wanted to make you feel like you are on her level.
Guess what? You're the W, and he is back with you. So, feel good. And make her jealous by losing that weight and feeling good about yourself. Be sexy, feel sexy, act sexy. Believe you are.
