It's hard to know what to do w/them, isn't it? I thought of trying the Tarzan/Jane message, but in my H's weird state of mind that I'm insulting him w/sex right now, that would probably PO him beyond words right now. One thing I was going to comment on and forgot was your comment about being haunted everyday by OW telling you your H told her you were fat and it just didn't do it for him.....Keep in mind what you wrote on my thread, about the type of OW who wants to hurt a man's wife....regardless of what type she is, I doubt that she would miss any opportunity to stick a dagger in your heart, so try not to let her. ( I know, easier said than done) Remember, Living Well is the Best Revenge! and honestly, in spite of your current challenges, he is back with you and not with her, right? you are the one he goes on Thursday date nights with, etc., so, I'd say there's some proof in that pudding, so to speak.
