Rotzilla: I do go the gym, twice a day in fact, it helps me feel so much better and I am watching what i eat but the progess is slow due to my age (44) and thyroid disease. Most days I am able to just concentrate on me and making myself a happier person but lately....... This is so not fair, I kept my promises ( the gym and the financial support, the forgivness and improving my moods) and he has not kept his.
Nitaf: My H is very conservative. Tarzan and Jane or any role playing or porno would turn him off. He likes spontaneous and natural as he says.


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