I am only very new to this but hey, we are friends with the OW and H, and I have kept well clear of them. Perhaps if you feel really badly for her I would suggest that you tell her to get hold of Micheles book "Divorce Remedy" I think that is what I will do once this hopefully blows over. In my case of would give it to the H of the OW. Dont know if this helps but you only have two weeks to hang in there, thats definately a bright side. My OW only lives 2km away, and that is so hard, and there is no way I am moving - I am too close to my elderly parents here. Good luck Creed. I am glad to here you are making a fresh start.