Quote: If you met my W in RL, you'd think she was pretty, sweet, outgoing, fun and intelligent. The females would think they had just met their new best friend
I'm sure this is true. You would probably like my husband too. I'm sure all of the LD spouses are good people in many ways and the more we are naturally conveying that in our posts, the more differentiated we probably are.
I don't want to hijack your thread but this brings to mind an interesting event from yesterday. I was speaking to one of my sisters on the phone and it turns out that she is the LD in her relationship.(I probably could have guessed this since her H teases me endlessly about catching me and H in the act when we were all vacationing together.) I got the distinct impression finding out that I was HD made her want to change her ways since I'm the big sister she looks up to. Maybe you HD guys should just get some older HD female mentors for your LD wives.LOL
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