Something about your post makes me think that either your wife is very childish or for some reason she views you as a figure of authority against whom she has to rebel.
Shades of the "evil paperdoll" returning. I didn't mean to insult you with that comment. I was being overly analytical and not very empathetic (I've got an appointment in 2 weeks tosee if I have ADD ).
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
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