Well, things are going very well for us! We just finished being an angel couple at a retrouvaille weekend (www.retrouvaille.com) for the second time. What an incredible program it is!!
At home things are much improved, with me being more willing to come right out and ask dh to do chores instead of hinting and being mad he doesn't do them. One of the presenting couples last weekend made me realize that when I don't sit still with dh and relax but instead buzz around doing things, I'm really trying to guilt him into helping me. It doesn't work, I get mad, and dh feels lonely that I never relax with him. DUH! So this week he has done more around the house following our weekend than he has in months!
We've been dating a lot over the past several months, and I *almost* feel as though he really, truly loves me again and isn't just saying it. He reiterated this past weekend that he does love me, he isn't just saying it, and he's in this marriage forever. I can't quite bring myself to believe it 100% but I'm getting there.
